"Confidence comes from hours and days and weeks and years of constant work and dedication." - Roger Staubach
Last year I picked up the book, The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy. He lays out details of his personal success and he claims that his most important trait is his unyielding and relentless commitment to consistency. "Success is not defined by how you start, but by how you continue...over a long period of time."
The Compound Effect states that the routine choices we make, when compounded over long periods, form habits which exert outsized control over our lives. The compound effect is always working, whether you believe in it or not. Either working in your favor or against you. Small efforts you put in each day begin to compound and have a drastic effect on our health, wealth and mindset. A good example he gives is that of annual compound interest, but in your case think of your daily actions compounded weekly. The return on your initial investment is multiplied significantly based on your consistency. The momentum you gain will help propel you forward while also providing a surge of motivation.
For many of us, it is easy to begin something. Most of us are super determined to make a change as we ring in the New Year each year. Three months later, if you've lasted this long, your determination has usually faded away. Whether it's starting a workout regime or eliminating a bad habit. We all start with an extreme situation, like committing to going to the gym 5-6 times a week, when just a month before, our definition of a workout was running to get the mail 15 yards from our front door. The extremism may work at first but it is not easy to sustain for the long run. The key is to ease your way into the desired change. Develop a plan where you can ramp up to the desired result while still giving yourself flexibility if you encounter some drawbacks along the way. If your plan is too extreme, you risk losing motivation once you encounter situations that affect the sustainability of your plan. With flexibility in your game plan you can allow for some hiccups while immediately refocusing on your goals.
The next time you propose a new goal for yourself, break it up into a smaller pieces that you can manage. For me, the thought of running a marathon (26.2 miles) is overwhelming and introduces a dose of anxiety and fear but when I chop it up into buckets of 5 miles, it becomes something more manageable to approach. My reasoning is that a 5 mile run is doable for me, the key is I would have to repeat what is doable for me, just a little over 5 times. This approach can be used to tackle huge goals or help you more effectively knock things off your to-do list. Whatever your goal is, try to break it up into manageable pieces which you can work on each day and most importantly, BEGIN TODAY!